Cheating Series XIII: what happened in Mexico last week & Why Separation or “breaks” in Marriage Might be a Super Ridiculous idea.

I have Considered doing a post about temporary separations many times but have always decided against doing so because the arguments against doing so have seemed too obvious to be interesting.

Thanks to my trip to Mexico last week, I have a fresh story to go with the topic; What I’ve read about separation – what people were advising about it – has always seemed at odds  with my experiences with the concept;  so, I did some further research this weekend… and felt the same disconnect – especially on top of the findings fresh from Mexico:

I present the following for your consideration with the topic of marital separations – with hopes the “field research” will be amusing – (if not inspire mass hornyness and global spikes in masturbatory activity.)

Thesis: Couples  rarely use breaks from marriage for the sake of their marriage – it’s’ a decoy – a cover story. The real reason is to lesson the pain of – or dodge the guilt from what they actually want to do: if they want a break, they either want to cheat or want out of the marriage, or both.

But, before we get in to the break from marriage related story, some other naughty stuff happened too – I’ll walk you backwards from the last to the first of it.

This girl on the whale watching boat we went on Wednesday caught me slipping out of my swim trunks. It was an unexpected collision but too head-on for either us us to pretend we didn’t see it happen.

It was not a large boat – maybe thirty or so on board – but we were alone for a moment up near the bow – I was up next for the bathroom and was turned around on the bench taking photos of the ocean with my legs scrunched behind the bench keeping me balanced.

Rosalia tapped on my shoulder with the margarita I’d ordered; she politely held on to it  while I hurriedly tried to untangle my legs and work some acrobatics to get facing the right way – where she was standing.

Mid way through my 180 the leg of my swim suit snagged on some hook sticking out form the side of the boat. The hook pulled my trunks up my leg towards my hip, and my prego-poll popped out.

I wasn’t sailing cowboy style – my swim suit has the mesh-like inner lining thing, if you’ve owned a swimsuit and seen one, you know that a jockstrap it is not. She was right there, we shared a moment of frozen indecision – with our eyes on my lose end – it was a moment too freeze-framed for us to act like nothing happened.

“Oops,” Rosalia said, discreetly. It was just enough to unfreeze thee moment.

“Sorry about that, ” told her as I got situated. “That was embarrassing.”

“I’s okay, de nada, crazier things have happened onboard – one man lost his shorts completely.

“Let’s have a shot and forget that just happened,” I suggested – trying to flirt my embarrassment away.

“I would love to but can’t while working.. but maybe later once we’re off the boat?”

SO, that happened and the whale watching cruise lasted a couple more hours. No whales were found. The suit malfunction isn’t naughty per say – but relevant because it started a chain of events that lead to seeing Rosalia. I But Rosalia was found a few hours later – we’ll continue with that part later.

rosalia on boat 3

Rosalia being teased by crew mate about having the only “whale” siting of the day

I had given up on the possibility of having that shot with Rosalia (the girl on the right dressed in black). But, thanks to Linda’s (girl on left), the possibility showed up about five minutes before the cruise ended.

I was chatting with the two about not finding any whales – they felt bad none were spotted – it was fine because they got me nice and drunk instead.

Anyway, the other girl threw Rosalia totally under the buss and said, “well Rosy saw something big today …”

Rosy tried to shush her but mainly blushed and tried to hide her face…

“Guess it wasn’t a whale, ” she laughed,

I didn’t even care why Rosy blabbed about my accident – I figured if she bothered talking to her crew mate about it, might be a sign she’d meet up later.

I invited both to meet for a drink. I’ll get to that part later. First, let me tell you how things started earlier in the week with the hair stylist who was beginning one of these “marital separations..” to be continued next post…

Continue on to part 2: Cheating Series XIII: Part 2: Mexico & Why Separation or “breaks” in Marriage Might be a Super Ridiculous idea.


 

Cheating Series:

Cheating Series XIII: what happened in Mexico last week & Why Separation or “breaks” in Marriage Might be a Super Ridiculous idea.

Cheating: Issues, Questions & Implications of shifting attitudes towards marital infidelity.
Cheating Part II: How much flirtation is healthy and when does it become infidelity?
Cheating III: Sex in Head, Mental Infidelity
Cheating IV: Anatomy of Infidelity
Cheating Part V: Loopholes, Free Zones and Grey Areas.
Cheating VII: Time Warp Infidelity – Sex After or Before the Relationship?
Cheating 7: When You Stumble Upon Much Better Sex Outside Your Relationship
Cheating 8: Is it Really Sex or affection we Want or is Cheating a Settlement?
Cheating 9: Considering Special Features in Defense of Sexual Infidelity
Cheating 10: Looking for a bit of fun before spilling the beans
Cheating XI: How Not to Sleep With Married People

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Dildo or Man – and You a T-shirt, What’s Your Pleasure?

No, I’m not going to just give you dick and get you off – masturbation equipment. Why reduce our expectations all the way down to mere matters of friction? I can jack off into my t-shirt and not feel weird after – how absurd it would be to use an entire human being as a cum rage.

You don’t know it yet, but you’ll feel weird to. Maybe you won’t be able to explain, but some part of you will know that you just used a whole man and all his years of living – and all those who have become a part of him, as a dildo for masturbation. And it will get you off as good dildo would – as a good dildo should have. As my t-shirt is about to.

Does there have to be love? Does it have to be serious and complicated? Do we have to be romantic? Not necessarily,  but we’ve got to be more than t-shirts and dildos. The price is high to use a whole life just for getting off – what risk will you wager for the pleasure?


Nope, we don’t have to have love or romance; you can have me for a dark secret and a sin or two.

You will pay in full. No t-shirt has ever seen half the results you’ve come looking for.

Surprise Third Interview with Ashley from tinder: sex, exposure, secrets, risks

Just staring? You might want to read the first two interviews first

Sinner: : Welcome back. Few have actually made it to a third interview – for one reason or another – congrats, and thank you.

Ashley: : Do I get a prize

Sinner: : Maybe, have to think about that. So, the last interview was interesting, so, we’ll start where we left off. Regarding your friend’s husband, who you had that three way with one night, and who you apparently think about often while masturbating, …. why was he so memorable? What’s so great about him that you are so infatuated?

Ashley: : Infatuated is a bit much, but yes, I guess we can go with memorable. Umm, I guess it’s .. well he’s attractive and was only one of two since separating, so that probably conributes..

Sinner: : That’s it?

Ashley: : He took control I guess you could say. With my ex I was more the aggressive one.

Sinner: : So, he was firm and dominant with you? What else?

Ashley: : Something like that. Um…, I think he lasted for a while,  although I don’t remember exactly, and he was rather well endowed which I guess was interesting.

Sinner: : Oh, but I thought size doesn’t matter.

Ashley: : I didn’t say it mattered, I believe I said “interesting.”

Sinner: : How big was this interesting dick? bigger than your ex?

Ashley: : I don’t know, but yes, noticeably larger than my ex.

Sinner: : So that’s why you can’t get him off your mind.

Ashley: : Stop, I’ve been married forever, I don’t have a lot of experiences to work with here.

Sinner: : Would you do another three-way with them if you have the chance?

Ashley: : No, I’m not proud of it. The circumstances as they were, it happened, but I’d not do it again.

Sinner: : Okay. Show me your tits.

Ashley: : Show me your cock!

Sinner: : okay

Ashley: : You are crazy, I cannot believe you just did that.

Sinner: : Your turn.

Ashley: : Seriously wasn’t expecting that. Alright, don’t blink.

Sinner: : Awesome! Very hot, pointy.

Ashley: : Yes, I’ve heard them referred to as “missile tits.”

Sinner: : So that was fun.

Ashley: : Not sure whether I should feel offended or grateful, nobody’s ever exposed themselves to me before.

Sinner: : What, you asked/told me to.

Ashley: : True, didn’t think you’d actually do it, was just making a point.

Sinner: : I’m sorry.

Ashley: : it’s okay. It’s really, well, big, no?

Sinner: : no.

Ashley: : Liar, it looked like it unless I’m seeing things?

Sinner: : You’re seeing things.

Ashley: : Whatever you say. Am I supposed to concentrate now?

Sinner: : Of course, interview only half over.

Ashley: : Got it.

Sinner: : May I post a pic of your missile tits for readers to see?

Ashley: : Sure, as long as you post your cock next to it.

Sinner: : No way.

Ashley: : There you go.

(she wouldn’t let me post a pic but I found a photo that is similar)

missile

Sinner: : Did you have a boyfriend before you got married? before your husband?

Ashley: : Yes, a couple. I had a somewhat serious boyfriend in high school, and one in college. So, two serious relationships before I met my husband.

Sinner: : What were they like? Why did you break up?

Ashley: : The high school one ended with high school, and I met my husband, ex husband, while dating the college one. My high school boyfriend wanted sex all the time, for the most part, and my college boyfriend, well, he did too, but.

Sinner: : LOL That’s high school and college guys for you. Who was the
best in bed? who do you miss the most? Where they better than your ex husband in anyway?

Ashley: : Although I had nothing to compare him to at the time, my boyfriend in high school compared very well, I still think about him sometimes. My boyfriend in college was the most confident but not so great compared to the others. My husband was fine at first but his drinking eventually made it not so good.

Sinner: : What was so good about the first?

Ashley: : Again, he was more aggressive, I guess.

Sinner: : And, was he the biggest, or ?

Ashley: : Yes, from what I remember.

Sinner: : How could you not remember?

Ashley: : Time plays tricks, I’ve been with one man for a long time. They were all around the same size, normal I guess, none particularly large like Dan, my friends husband, or like you.

Sinner: : You’ve never seen me hard, how would you know I’m any different?

Ashley: : True, I just saw you for a moment, but judging by that

Sinner: : Fair enough, I can take it out while we finish up if need be.

Ashley: : What? Take what out, your cock? I think I got a clear picture, but if you want to, go for it.

Sinner: : Like this.

Ashley: : You are totally insane, for those not here, he took it out and it’s right, um, out.

Sinner: : You know what’s fucked up, if I was creepy and ugly, you’d be offended.

Ashley: : Who says I’m not?

Sinner: : Wow, you are?

Ashley: : Yes, of course. But, keep it out, need to look at this.

Sinner: : WTF, you’re offended that I have my dick out but want me to keep my dick out?

Ashley: : Exactly.

Sinner: : So then you’re not really offended.

Ashley: : Maybe not totally.

Sinner: : Okay, any thoughts or you just going to look at me?

Ashley: : Looking? moi? Next question.

Sinner: : Who was better, that Tinder guy you slept with or the friends husband?

Ashley: : That’s easy, friend’s husband. The Tinder guy was nothing special, obviously, as I haven’t seen him again.

Sinner: : How many times in a week do you masturbate?

Ashley: : Um…, two to four times probably. Some weeks I’m like insatiable and other weeks not so much. Last week I was crazed, like non stop. Don’t know what’s come over me.

Sinner: : Wow, so non stop masturbating, you were really horny?

Ashley: : Wondering if there’s something seriously wrong with me, I’ve been crazy with that lately. Ahhhh, you put it away, I’m much less offended now.

Sinner: : I’m sorry.

Ashley: : I’m totally giving you a hard time.

Sinner: : Yes you are. 😦

Ashley: : Aw, don’t pout, I’ll eventually recover from the trauma.

Sinner: : Trauma? ouch.

Ashley: : Better you think I’m traumatized than mesmerized.

Sinner: : You’re mesmerized?

Ashley: : Shut up, anymore questions?

Sinner: : Yes, is there anything sexually that you did with either of your two first boyfriends that you never did with your husband?

Ashley: : hmm, well my second, college boyfriend and I were very, um.., experimental.

Sinner: : And?

Ashley: : Let’s just say that I put my tongue in a certain place that I never did with my husband. Enough said on that.

Sinner: : Oh, you licked the boyfriends ass?

Ashley: : As I said, enough said.

Sinner: : Who made you come most often, and how many orgasms have you had  during one session of sex?

Ashley: : It’s a typical thing with me you could say, never had much difficulty there. Just a guess, maybe five to seven times? Not sure, but several times.

Sinner: : Wow, so you come easily? quickly?

Ashley: : Yes.

Sinner: : How many times did you come with your friends husband that one time?

Ashley: : That’s actually what I was referring to with the five to seven. I honestly don’t remember, but it was many.

Sinner: : wow.

Ashley: : blush.

Sinner: : Little does your husband – ex husband – know.

Ashley: : Yup, oh god, it would kill him.

Sinner: : You going to tell him about it?

Ashley: : God no, that would be cruel.

Sinner: : Did you come so many times because you were licking your friend’s clit?

Ashley: : It may have added to the excitement but mainly it was him, not really into the other stuff.

Sinner: : So you haven’t imagined anything with her since?

Ashley: : I didn’t say that. Now I’m blushing. No, I mean, there are aspects of it that are interesting, yes, but..

Sinner: : Fair enough, it’s hot sometimes to think about licking your friends pussy, but her husband dominating you with his big, hard, commanding cock is hotter?

Ashley: : Close enough.

Sinner: : Awesome. Well that about covers things I guess.

Ashley: : Do I get to ask you anything?

Sinner: : No.

Ashley: : That is fair.

Sinner: : Kidding. Nobody every wants to, but if there’s anything you want to ask, be my guest.

Ashley: : Does anyone you talk about on your blog know about it, have any found it?

Sinner: : A couple characters in the stories know (one I had major negotiations with about it) , and funny you ask, my most recent ex girlfriend just found it. I was very embarrassed, but oddly enough, it turned her on. I would love to get a couple main characters to do a live interview, but those that know about it are too worried about anonymity so far – as am I, so I totally understand.

Ashley: : Why don’t you have photos of yourself on the blog? or, god forbid, of your cock? Just saying, what would it hurt?

Sinner: : I’m shy and private. I am very traditional in every other aspect – as are my parents and siblings who would die if they saw this, so face photos are too risky. A cock photo would be too creepy and remove the mystery, not my style. I know, I did just whip it out, but I’ve seen your breasts and you want to get with me, so it’s different.

Ashley: : Wait, you showed me you first, before I showed my breasts.

Sinner: : True.

Ashley: : Umm, and, what’s this about me wanting to get with you?

Sinner: : You don’t?

Ashley: Screw you, I do, but…

Sinner: : LOL

Ashley: : Shut up!

Sinner: : LOL, I love it. So, you saw my cock and now want to get with me?

Ashley: : Quit while you’re ahead, maybe?

Sinner: : Okay, so now we aren’t answering, that’s fine – just so I know

Ashley: : You’re putting words in my mouth

Sinner: : Oh, okay, I’m sorry. So, I need to retract the stuff about you wanting to get with me and all because you saw my cock

Ashley: : Definitely not, because I saw your cock. We shall see, as far as me wanting to “get with you. Seeing your cock didn’t hurt, but…

Sinner: : Well now I’ve lost track of truth here, but okay, I’ll not pin you down on this if you wish to get out easy.

Ashley: : What? Fine, ask me a straight question and I’ll answer.

Sinner: : When did you masturbate last?

Ashley: : Last night.

Sinner: : What is the nastiest of your routine fantasies while masturbating?

Ashley: : Probably one involving two men, or sometimes more.

Sinner: : You mean, a guy in your pussy and another in your ass at the same time?

Ashley: : where else would they be? oh, well my mouth, okay.

Sinner: : I like your jeans, and what panties are you wearing, if any? please describe.

Ashley: . Thanks, and yes I’m wearing white ones, thongs I believe.

Sinner: : Believe or know?

Ashley: : I know smart butt.

Sinner: : Let me see.

(she just pulls the waistband of them above her jeans. they are white, the thong part has not been confirmed.)
(this is getting long, will post the rest in a separate post)

My Family Vegas Trip As an Old Fuck – Don’t Knock it Until You Read This

Money – Politics – Sex – Death – Tragedy – Gossip – Did I Say Anal? – Infidelity – Something Crazy – Something New – Stupid Hot Stuff – Just stupid stuff – Sex – Naughty sex – Humanity

For those of us who grew up in the US, we’ve probably done Vegas as a young adult; if you have, you know the story: we think we know what we’re doing gambling, and lose our shirt learning we don’t know shit. We could have recognized that those who do know what they’re doing, often lose their shirts. But, with me anyway, I learn by doing. (and by doing I mean losing).

The upside, when we’re young in Vegas, we go to clubs, look good, are energized all night long, and most likely hookup. That’s Vegas for a young adult, and it doesn’t suck.

So, I’m way past twenty, and just returned from Vegas, to report this week’s version of an older person’s “Vegas.”

I’ve been in Vegas since Saturday, left yesterday and returned home atoday. I was in Vegas to meet up with my parents, a few sisters, a few cousins, an Aunt, and few high rollers from the UK – gambling friends of the aunt’s. Not exactly a bachelor party is sort of what I’m saying. Not to say my family can’t be fun.

I’ll save discussion of family dynamics for my “health, fitness and prayer for the modern family” blog; on here, we’ll get right to the more human aspects.

Having spent enough time in Vegas in my late teens and twenties, I can compare and contrast on a few things; then,, I suppose, I’ll just tell you the stuff that happened; perhaps not as crazy as some times when I was 22, but this account might give you pause if you were thinking Vegas doesn’t get crazy for those of us over thirty.

I’m still trying to figure out if my readers appreciate reading the raw stories about my life – like this – or prefer the more philosophical, or better articulated at least, postings. For those in the latter, you might appreciate my next post after these – and may find this discussion too crass or degenerate for your taste. But, for any interested, this is the raw honest scoop/dirt on my middle-aged, family vacation to Vegas.


My family Vegas Trip As an Old Fucker

anyone interested in hearing this? Anyway, let me know while I write it.

 

 

 

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Morning Little Secrets and Raging Hardness

I know I’ve been working too hard and playing too little when, at my age, I wake up with a raging hard on two mornings in a row.

This morning it wanted to stick around… unfortunately, it’s not “take your hard cock to work day,” so I had to stroke it, and I think I will once more after writing this.

I often have to clean up afterwards, because I sort of like to see the cum as it comes out. Is that weird? To much information?

If my profligate cum bothers you, you’re welcome to come over here and help  constrain it.

 

 

Tell me: Just horny Curiosity About You


Results

Currently Horny super horny
Tell me something personal and sexy? This blog gives me more Orgasms than hubby
Ask me something personal and sexy how thick is your cock? big balls?

Sinner Saint answer: come over and show me your tits and see for yourself

(optional) Story, topic or Anything else you’d like to read a post about Description of what you do and how you get a girl to climax
Select your privacy share my answers publicly on this post

Currently Horny i need to come before I go crazy
Tell me something personal and sexy? i masturbate almost everyday after work before boyfriend gets home
Ask me something personal and sexy what is something unusual that really turns you on?

Sinner Saint answer:  hairy bush

(optional) Story, topic or Anything else you’d like to read a post about describe a fav sexual fantasy in detail
Select your privacy share my answers publicly on this post

Currently Horny super horny
Tell me something personal and sexy? Everyone thinks i am so good but i have frequent rape fantasy about large men cumming in me in every hole.
Ask me something personal and sexy what would you want to do to me if you could do any sex act:

Sinner Saint answer: anal, duh

(optional) Story, topic or Anything else you’d like to read a post about seduction
Select your privacy share my answers publicly on this post

Currently Horny yes horny
Tell me something personal and sexy? we’ve had sex and u have no idea I found your blog. married now & not nearby but think about u. hint – fashion
Ask me something personal and sexy are you painting?

Sinner Saint Answer: no, who is this?

(optional) Story, topic or Anything else you’d like to read a post about waiting for you to talk about our adventure
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Currently Horny i need to come before I go crazy
Tell me something personal and sexy? I got Dare and the part where the girl is on your lap then ran off too shy to say anything… that’s been my “go to” for several weeks.

Sinner Saint Answer: Have a few more stories to tell about May, everything that girl does fascinates me.

Ask me something personal and sexy did you ever have sex with or see Paula again?( if she is a real person )

Sinner Saint: she’s very real. I saw her again and the details are in dare 2. short answer,  I was dating Morgan after Dare one, Paula and husband were having issues and she stayed with us for a while. As you can probably guess, not a good idea, but a good story.

(optional) Story, topic or Anything else you’d like to read a post about Any followups on what is going on with the friends in dare would be interesting.
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Currently Horny yes horny
Tell me something personal and sexy? When I wear skirts to work I totally tell when boss is looking to see between my legs and I like it
Ask me something personal and sexy Do you like to see up a girls skirt? What panties would you want me to be wearing if you saw up mine?

Sinner Saint: Who wouldn’t like such a sight. Wouldn’t like to get caught doing it like your boss. sheer white panties would be good.

(optional) Story, topic or Anything else you’d like to read a post about Ever see or try to see up a girls skirt at work?

Sinner Saint:  had a co-worker/cubical-mate who liked to show me what panties she was wearing – would pull her skirt up and tell me to take a look.

Select your privacy share my answers publicly on this post

Currently Horny? i need to come before I go crazy
Tell me something personal and sexy? I am really bored and dying for some excitement. Playing with myself this much is getting ridiculous.
Ask me something personal and sexy Don’t want to be too unfaithful but can you suggest something that would be stimulating?Sinner Saint Answer: Go grocery shopping without a bra. Get a message and wear nothing. Layout and sunbathe nude in your backyard, Go to https://naughtypolls.com and answer naughty poll questions. Come let me interview you topless. Go to a sex shop and have the person working there show you all of the toys and vibrators. Go to a strip club during the day and get a lap dance. Get this clone a willy kit make a vibrator with your husband that looks just like his dick. Go to a health club and sit in the sauna or steam room in your underwear. Go buy some black thong panties. Read by book Dare before Dare 2 comes out and tell me your favorite part. Get on tinder and have a drink with someone and wear your new panties, kiss him and then leave. Hire a masseur off Craig’s list to come to your house and give you a massage.
(optional) Story, topic or Anything else you’d like to read a post about Have you known any bored wives or girlfriends? what did they do?

Sinner Saint: If not for bored wives and girlfriends I’d probably be celibate. But, yea, I’ll write about some.

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Why are Women so Quick to the Penis – Have the Rules Changed?

Why all the penis contact – Are women following new rules?

I’m not really complaining – let’s call this an inquiry.

Once upon a time, girls would hold back on making contact with  a guy’s penis. So much so, it remained an open question whether or not they even wanted any such contact – or just shy about it – not wanting to come across to eager, slutty.

I’m mainly talking about behavior while making out – especially the first couple of times with someone.

The rules used to be, the girl wouldn’t touch a guy’s crotch area, until he touched her crotch first – or, at least until the he started feeling out her chest. Even then, a girl grabbing and feeling out a guy’s junk was more often second, or third date territory.

As is the case with the last four girls I’ve “interacted with,” old rules didn’t apply – dismissed  without a nod or even a wave goodbye. All four dates went went for my crotch and proceeded to locate, touch, and fondle my dick before I had felt a boob or an ass cheek. Two of the four, after I’d let my hands get busy, initiated the next step – first to dive under clothing. There hands were on me – skin to skin – before I ventured up their shirt or inside their pants. (okay one had a skirt and I’d found her ass via the most logical route.) But still..

What changed that makes feeling out and rubbing a guy’s penis a standard component of the first make-out session? And, God bless them, why are women  now unashamed about making the first move in that regard?

Perhaps it’s an age thing? – I haven’t made out with anyone under thirty in years, but it seems to be different even in the past few years. Has there been a change in cultural trends? Has Cosmo been running articles recommending a more aggressive, “dick first” attitude? Or, maybe Oprah had a guest on her show, who wrote a book about the advantages to early dicktection? Perhaps women are busier, have less free time and don’t want to ‘mess around” when they mess around? Could it be a practical matter – get some inspection in before wasting time on a second date?

What thoughts do you have? Men, have any of you noticed this too? How about you ladies, are you quicker to feel a guy’s crotch than you used to be? Any thoughts as to what has emboldened women, why the rules have changed and why women seem to be more comfortable initiating contact with penis?

Whatever-the-case, if women are more comfortable with penis contact, it’s probably a good thing despite the reason.

 

A Woman I met Watching Super Bowl, Took Up my offer to Watch it blow.

An offer in jest – never thought you’d accept

I’m all out now –  before your eyes, arching

Full reservoir, volatile pressure- shock

Zoomed –  engorged – trunk to shroom,

Your smile escapes, secret amusement betrayed,

The geyser roars, white and thick, precarious beams

Overflowing gush and ooze – your eyes on it all

You smile big – I  empty the last – we feel alive.

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