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Tinder Ashley Interview
I was on Tinder while out by myself having sushi for dinner last night, and she agreed to come over and have a few drinks and do an interview.
We’ve had about an hour to make each other’s acquaintance and get through a bottle of Markham. Just uncorked another and we’re here at my dining table. We’ll be passing the laptop for this one.
Sinner Saint: Thank you for coming over and doing this interview.
Instructions: How this works is, I ask you intrusive and shocking questions, and you see how many you can answer before you storm out my door in a fit of disgust and anger. A few of the questions were submitted by readers – so if you are particularly offended by one, it’s probably one of theirs.
Speaking of which, we’ll start with the most provocative question suggested by readers. “‘Did you come for an interview or did you really just want to get some dick?”
Ashley: Must the two be mutually exclusive?
Sinner Saint: So, you’re saying you wanted to do an interview and you wanted to get, um…
Ashley: I’m saying there’s room for both possibilities.
Sinner Saint. Got it. I think. So, you’re 37 years old, divorced and have one child, right?
Ashley: Yes, I have a daughter in Junior high who’s with her dad during the week and with me on weekends.
Sinner Saint: How long have you been divorced?
Ashley: Officially, the divorce is not final, but we haven’t lived together for two years.
Sinner Saint: So you kicked him out because his dick was too small?
Ashley: No, I left because he was an alcoholic and I was done dealing with it.
Sinner Saint: Sorry to hear that. So, his dick wasn’t too small?
Ashley: No, I didn’t have a problem with his size. As for erectile dysfunction due to the drinking, different story.
Sinner Saint: That sucks – for both of you. So, he couldn’t get hard anymore? How long was that going on? You were both pretty young for that to be happening.
Ashley: with enough effort I could usually get him hard enough to do something, but he couldn’t get a full erection and would lose it right away. It’s probably been five years or longer since I’ve seen him “full functioning” shall we say. He’s seven years older than I, but still, I know it was the drinking and not his age. Again, I left because of the drinking, the ED was just one of many problems it was causing.
Sinner Saint: Do you still get together and have sex now and then out of convenience when you’re particularly horny.
Ashley: Do we need to do a lesson on erectile dysfunction? Sorry, that sounded a bit bitchy, obviously I’m not bitter at all about it. (ha ha). He chose drinking at the expense of his equipment working.
Sinner Saint: Have you met up with other guys on Tinder? Did you fuck them? On the first date?
Ashley: I have met up with two I met on Tinder and one of them I had sex with.
Sinner Saint: Nice, how was that? Was it your first time back in the saddle after your and your husband split up?
Ashley: Yes, had been twelve years since I had been with anyone other than my husband, so that was exciting. There was some ED going on with him too, wouldn’t you know, but it wasn’t too bad.
Sinner Saint: Not too bad… does that mean you had orgasms while fucking him?
Ashley: I’ve never had much difficulty with that. I know some girls have a difficult time with it.
Sinner Saint: Okay, here’s two more questions suggested by readers. Reader Q 1: “Have you had any big black cock? Reader Q 2: “Look at Duncan and describe what you see ~ give us an overview or general impression?” Hmm, wonder which question was suggested by a guy and which from a female. LMAO. Love it.
Ashley: No “big black cock” as of yet, and let me see
He is dressed casually in a plain white t-shirt and jeans, and fancy shoes. He’s got gorgeous, deep blue eyes, and nice hair that is just slightly receding (no sign of balding). Hopefully that answers the question? He’s in good shape and quite handsome if that is what you’re asking.
Sinner Saint: I might not include this questions.
Ashley: Now he’s blushing.
Sinner Saint: Shut the fuck up.
Ashley: So sensitive. I’m just answering the questions YOU gave me.
Sinner Saint: Good point. I should have not given you it, but I didn’t want to be a dick and not ask questions that readers took the time to contribute.
Ashley: I thought it was good question.
Sinner Saint: Well I thought the “big black cock” question was particularly inspired.
Okay, one more reader question. “Describe the bra and panties you are wearing and show sinner your tits so he can take a pic so we can see them.”
Ashley: Are these really coming from readers?
Sinner Saint: Okay, that last one was me, but the others were from readers I swear.
Ashley: Oh you are bad. I am wearing white thong panties and just a white bra that I like, and sorry, I have a teenage daughter who doesn’t need to be running into nude pics of her mother on the internet.
Sinner Saint: Good point, totally understand. Shall we take a bathroom break, and we can discuss.. We could finish up tonight, or I’m free tomorrow night or Friday if you want to finish second half then?
Ashley: I have my daughter on Friday, but maybe tomorrow. We can discuss.
The dealer Perlah was drinking a water when I found her. After meeting her co-worker, I offered to buy them both a drink. The co-worker, (I think her name was “Terry,” but it could have been Jerry – some girl name that sounded like a guy’s) ordered a corona.
I was amused by Perlah’s choice – Patron silver on ice with a lemon wedge – and she wasn’t scared of it, downed it before I tasted the second half of my martini. I offered her another, she ordered another Patron, this time reassuring me that she takes Uber to work.
I wanted to know what went right this time – why were we there?.
“Thanks for inviting me to join you, I thought perhaps it was against the rules – as a dealer or whatever? Do you usually come here after work?”
I was actually wanting to know if she met up with customers like this often, and make sure her motives were romantic – or, at least, not professional. You never know.
“Often on Saturdays I’ll stay for a drink because my kids stay at my moms on the weekends, and I get off early. My other days I don’t get off until 3:00am. My husband doesn’t know that I work less hours on Saturday, so I get a little bit of time to unwind.”
Okay, I know what some of you are thinking. No, I did not know she was married. She was old enough and good looking enough to likely be married – but being a dancing dealer didn’t seem like a wife type of job. I assumed she was single but wasn’t particularly disappointed to find out she was married.
I still had to know if I was a special case or just this Saturday’s diversion.
“You are the first dealer I’ve ever had a drink with, do you invite many players to join you… I mean, thank you – to what do I owe the honor?”
“No, god no! You are cute and.. I’m not really sure, was sort of a spontaneous decision, should I not have?”
“Definitely not, but I’m glad you did.”
“Glad I did eh, why is that?”
“Glad because .. um, having fun so far… but really because you’re gorgeous, if I have to be honest about it.”
“Okay, good answer, I guess I’ll stay for another drink.”
We had three more drinks if I’m remembering correctly. I found out she invited a guy one other time a few months ago. She said he wasn’t a very good kisser so it didn’t go very far. I’m not sure whether or not she meant to convey all the information I received from the story, but it was almost everything I needed to know.
Knowing that the only thing that stopped the last guy was bad kissing, I dropped my guard and huddled in closer. We started kissing – and it seemed I would not be suffering the same fate as the last guy.
Perlah asked where I was staying and I invited the two up for a drink in my room – my hotel was about a block away. I’d splurged a little and got a pretty good room with a great view. I expected the other girl Terry to excuse herself but instead she quickly accepted the invitation, so all three of left The Golden Nugget and headed towards my room.
I locked arms with Perlah and extended a friendly hand to Jessy, and the three of us walked the whole way, arm in arm, with me between them… I had a few horny thoughts along the way. I was more attracted to Perlah, but Jessy’s enormous breasts knocking against my chest kept my mind open to other possibilities.
By the time we got to my room, I’d decided I needed to see Jessy’s breasts if possible. I know, give me an inch and I’ll wonder about the mile.
Don’t be mean, take this survey. All answers get submitted privately and your answers nor identity will be shared with anyone, not even God.
What: Princess is a sexy, brilliant young blogger who just did this interview with me. Here is her blog: https://thebrokenrosewithlaughingeyes.wordpress.com
Princess: I don’t always go to sleep at 9pm
SinnerSaint: Great – very cool we found a time to do this. Thank you.
Princess: The pleasure is all mine
Princess: I read your last interview- I’m a little nervous but eager
SinnerSaint: Okay, there’s not big rules other than try to answer as honestly as you can – don’t worry about typos and spelling – I’ll proof for those when I format for posting. The questions will be a mix but I’ll be leaning towards questions that have an erotica theme
SinnerSaint: Oh, well that interview was one of my most tame one. You didn’t read the second interview with her that I hid.
Princess: Got it, I’m ready
SinnerSaint: Okay here we go. Let’s start with some basic information about you: Age? Country? Bra size? Favorite body part (of yours)? Have a job/business/profession?
Princess: 25, United States, 38 DD, lips, I have a degree in marketing that I don’t use– I’m in real estate and insurance now
SinnerSaint: What piercings do you have?
Princess: Ear lobes, industrial, Christina/hood and nipples
SinnerSaint: What is the honest, true, real reason why you decided to get the nipple and vaginal area piercings?
Princess: I enjoy pain. Both happened at a time I wanted a tattoo right then but my guy was busy. I was sexually repressed for years and it was a secret way to express myself. Also I like the way they look, always have.
Princess: I seek pain when I’m stressed and/or blue
SinnerSaint: Were you sexually repressed in high school? how about college? when did you become UN-repressed?
SinnerSaint: So pain turns you on, or you like it but not a sexual thing?
Princess: High school and all of college. I opened my 9 year relationship which helped some, met a guy online that took me to a swingers party at a seedy hotel. He inadvertently helped me meet the Dom I played with that really helped me spreads my wings in a group message leading up to said party. Group sex really inhibits a gal.
Princess: Yes pain turns me on. I also enjoy feeling it when I go numb emotionally.
Princess: May will make a year of being sexually free
SinnerSaint: So let me try to summarize and you can correct where I am wrong: You dated a guy for nine years – fist serious relationship. Then you made it an open relationship and met a guy who took you to a swinger party where you met a DOM woman that became your new significant other and now you’re single?
Princess: Dom was a male. I couldn’t submit to a female, I have topped a few. Otherwise yes nail on the head.
SinnerSaint: Ohhh, was your last relationship with a female or where did I get that idea? In one of your great posts on your blog, you were posting an add for a third person – was that while you were with your DOM male boyfriend? was it his idea or yours?
Princess: Male. I’m bi, I sexually enjoy women but in a more toy sort of way. Yes I posted that add, I wanted to be taken– double penetrated. It would had been RG (Dom) and said contender. Recently I topped a female and wrote about it.. maybe that?
SinnerSaint: By the way, while I think submissiveness (them not me) is sexy, I’m not very knowledgeable about BSDM life – (ala shades of grey) ..
SinnerSaint: Damn, I need to get better at locating the good stuff on your blog. A friend of mine – and blogger recently tried her first double – she said it was a little tricky but otherwise she enjoyed it. So, did you ever experience double pen, or?
Princess: BSDM is what sparked my interest in broadening my horizon. I’m a switch, both submissive and dominant. I’m naturally a type A in control personality. Submission is therapy, my way to give up all the control I hold and exist within the moment. It takes a strong, intelligent alpha male to will that from me. So, I’m normally in control.
Princess: I did not, no.
SinnerSaint: Yea, I’ve never felt the need or desire to be submissive. Honestly, you’d have to kill me to tie me down or handcuff me. But I know a lot of type A’s get off on being sub sometimes. Why did you break up with Dom?
SinnerSaint: BUT, you dominating another woman – that’s a very hot concept. does “TOP” mean “DOM?”
Princess: We weren’t “together” he was also in an open relationship. I finally ended things with long term boyfriend (unrelated to Dom) and he ended one relationship for another that’s not open. We still meet twice a month for dinner, he’s my best friend.
Princess: Yes Top=Dominate Bottom=submitting
SinnerSaint: Wait, you meet with the DOM twice a month or the ex? And you don’t mess around? Did your boyfriend know about the DOM while it was happening?
SinnerSaint: Was your relationship with ex unfulfilling? Why? or, why did you feel the need for open relationship?
Princess: Yes he did. I’d come home and he’d meet me here and I’d cook him dinner and simply state where I had been. Ex is long gone out of the picture. I meet with RG (Dom) for dinner every other week and no.. we don’t do anything sexual. We haven’t been involved sexually since November
SinnerSaint: Ohhh, I just looked up pegging (you mentioned it in a poll suggestion). So pegging is a woman taking a strap on to a man? yikes
Princess: He liked me in lingerie then we would do it missionary with the lights off. Took him 4 years to make me cum.
Princess: Yes, I’ve never done it but recently I’ve had 2 submissive men beg me to. I’m interested but sometimes fantasies don’t need to become real life
Princess: It’s been a confusing 10 months lol
SinnerSaint: WTF? why did he like the lights off? What was the deal, he was just really straight? is that why you took so long to come, or did he not last long enough, or what was the issue?
SinnerSaint: I guess. I used to talk to a woman who’s fetish was watching men fuck each other. that was her thing. Headless to say I couldn’t help her out with that.
Princess: He was a “no fuss” kind of guy. The mental connect wasn’t there in the bedroom. Last time we had sex he tried being rough and he ended up crying..
Princess: I don’t think I’d take it that far
SinnerSaint: OMG, crying? Yea, I could see how that wouldn’t be so hot. Not to be mean – sounds like he was trying to give you what you wanted. So, did the DOM do better at making you come? why?
SinnerSaint: Okay, well if watching two men do it isn’t your thing, what is something super kinky that you think about while masturbating?
Princess: Hes 20 years my senior which I believe was an advantage. He wouldn’t have to touch me and I’d have cum running down my leg ( not an exaggeration ) he used me, which we both got off on but was also concerned with my pleasure. If I was having trouble cumming he would press a vibe to me as he fucked me. I always came at least once when we were together.
Princess: 3 men, one in every hole. But not in a they’re on control way- it would be all about my pleasure
SinnerSaint: If someone would arrange a seminar on making sure women came – half the women in the world wouldn’t sign their men up for it.
SinnerSaint: How would that work exactly – do you envision them alternating thrusts, or each being shoved in a hole and staying still, or ?
Princess: I will never make that mistake again. All you have to do at minimum is very comfortable with yourself and the fact you may need assistance. I have a friend that’s 28 and I talked her through her first orgasm 2 months ago
Princess: She’s about to marry someone that’s never made her cum
Princess: They would move in rhythm.. not sure if that’s realistic but it gets me off
SinnerSaint: That’s a mistake because in ten years, or at some point before death, she’ll see to it that someone makes her come. It must be a mind trip thing – I’ve known a few women that said they hadn’t come with their significant other, and most of them actually came without having to do much with them – must be mental. So, the DOM made you come – has there been any other highly successful lovers in that regard?
Princess: I don’t have many lovers. The ex did eventually. Recently I’ve been seeing a Marine, he doesn’t have to work hard to get me off. I went through a Rut recently. Since my revolution I make sure I get mine, I’ve also learned how to help myself get there and let go of any mental blocks (Dom also helped with that)
SinnerSaint: Is it largely a confidence thing you think, or more lack of determination? Is it people who aren’t confident that don’t get it done – and perhaps self fulfilling, compounding problem because the more they don’t make you come the less confidence they have?
SinnerSaint: So, you have not been very sexual for a year come may, was the marine before that or you’ve been having sex with him but just not a lot?
Princess: I think it’s both parties fault. My friend pretends she’s fulfilled and her beau doesn’t pay enough attention to know any better. People are ashamed of their sexual needs and we are all taught the male orgasm is put on a pedestal.
Princess: I’m still on 2 hands when it comes to PIV sexual partners. Marine was the third person I’d ever been with after opening up my relationship and is my most recent partner. My ex was my first and only till my 20s.
SinnerSaint: Very true. Men take a longgggg time to mature and develop empathy- and care what she’s getting out of things. I’ve known a lot of women who didn’t find it a big deal when they got married, and even more for whom it eventually became an issue. Does it turn you one more to get oral from a woman than a man?
Princess: Woman. Before I had a woman do it I didn’t care for it. Still not a big deal for me unless the person is very handsy as well. I prefer penetration.
SinnerSaint: When did you break up with your first/ex? Who broke it off and why? You have kids together, right? (sorry if it’s a downer topic, I’ll not stay on the topic for long)
SinnerSaint: What is PIV?
Princess: During our relationship being open he got someone else pregnant. We were going to work through that but all he ever wanted was a family and small town life. I want to see the world and do as much as possible before I settle down. It was a long time coming I broke things off then we had a fuel after and didn’t speak for a few months. Finally got closure last month.
Princess: Penns in Vagina, I saw the term today lol
SinnerSaint: I think 90% or another’s orgasm is created before any physical contact begins. Agree, or no?
SinnerSaint: You are much more advanced with your terms than I. I go to your blog to keep up and better my sexual vocabulary.
Princess: Yes I completely agree. DOM would start while I was at work, I’d float through the day and by the time I was standing in front of him I was all worked up
Princess: I like to read and talk to others about their sexual adventures. I do have the physical experience of most but I think what I know exceeds just the deed. I enjoy the psychological side just as much as I do the physical
SinnerSaint: wow, so ironic and typical. The guy who could hardly get you off, cheats on you and impregnates someone. Sorry, I had a judgement moment there. Anyway, you need to meet my good friend and editor Kim – https://kimknottyet.com/ the one who recently tried her first 2 way – you two have some stuff to relate on. Okay, I’m’ losing focus with this sharp learning curve. Focusing now. Are the questions too sexual? Did I read on your blog that you tried a new rabbit toy and another toy at the same time? Was it a butt plug (the second toy)?
Princess: Not too sexual. You did and no it was a Hitachi wand and it was amazing. I don’t own a plug anal isn’t something that pleases me.
Princess: And I would love to chat with her
SinnerSaint: Since you are usually top with girls, can we assume you haven’t done oral on them, or do you usually? Have you ever been naked around others who weren’t your others? when? Does it turn you on more to see or be seen – regarding people that shouldn’t necessarily see you or been seen by you?
SinnerSaint: Well maybe you can chat with her in Dublin during our three way. (joking)
SinnerSaint: Oh, before I forget, how do you keep your nipple piercings from showing in public ? not wear them, or?
Princess: I have preformed oral on a other female and enjoy it. I like to induce pain from pleasure– forced Orgasms. But typically yes they service me. Or are an extension between me and a male partner. Ex and I once had sex in a hot tub in front of about 20 people. He was gone–I enjoyed it. Gave marine head in a parking lot.. like was on my knees on the pavement. I like watching and being watched. Personally enjoy 4 Ways for that reason.
Princess: If it shouldn’t be seen I’d rather be the one watching. If it’s open then watch me
Princess: I look forward to seeing you both then 😉 and a thick bra keels then hid. They’re always in
SinnerSaint: I always feel like I come across as unintelligent when I talk about sex – which is a problem because I have an erotica blog and book series so I talk about it a lot. Do I come across as shallow or do you realize in a different context I might be able to have other things on my mind? (It’s your interview but here I’m thinking about me. Fantastic).
Princess: If you don’t ask questions you can not learn
SinnerSaint: Well I’ve seen a photo of you in a shirt and they were extremely OBVY – which is great – gave me an erection if the truth be known.
Princess: And if you’re not self aware there’s no room for self growth. I love your blog and know you have a plethora of Information as well
SinnerSaint: Do you get turned on while writing your blog posts? Do you get turned on by reading people’s blog posts? Every read while masturbating or vise versa?
Princess: I didn’t have a bra on, so like your erection, they stand at attention
Princess: If I’m recalling a sexy night I get aroused
SinnerSaint: If I were president I’d outlaw the use of bras. would you comply or go to jail?
Princess: I get most aroused (and have masturbated to) others blog post.
Princess: Comply. I didn’t get them done to hide them all the time. I wear thing bathing suit tops and have several dresses that showcase them
SinnerSaint: Well like all who subject themselves to an interview, you get a lifetime subscription to all diary volumes I ever publish. If you ever read one, will you tell me if it inspired you to masturbate?
Princess: Yes I will
SinnerSaint: LOVEEE that. Few things are more hot for me than insufficient breast coverings. Have you ever watched people have sex in person? if not, ever heard them?
Princess: Maybe even physical proof
SinnerSaint: I want more physical proof of your nipple piercings. LOL
Princess: Yes I attended a swingers party and there was a lot of that going on. Dom and I played with another female and male twice and we would take a break and they would be going at it and we would just sit and watch for a moment
Princess: I’d add a photo to the conversation if I could. How about one for the post? Or you may be greedy with it
SinnerSaint: So does that mean you had intercourse and oral with the other couple at swingers party, or ? Was the party creepy to you at all, or awesome? (never been to one)
SinnerSaint: Hell no! Do I strike you as greedy? That would be awesome if you’d share a photo to post with the interview – I’m sure many others would appreciate it too.
Princess: Creepy. I had sex before aND after but not there (this is covered in my first and second post) in 4 Ways I’ve watched. The party was a lot. Watched a lady take 7 dudes back to back. Not my thing but I enjoy seeing people enjoy themselves
Princess: And I will work on that 😉
SinnerSaint: Yea, I can understand. I’m a prude in some ways I guess – that kind of thing would probably creep me out. I’m not that in to people being lose with their sexuality, I’m in to them being stingy and succumbing. How often do you masturbate? how often have you more than once in a day? have you ever had sex with two different people in a 24 hour period?
SinnerSaint: When you watch porn, what type exactly do you watch? Are you getting tired – needing to go to bed? Do you do the leather and equipment – when you’ve done your BSDM – or, was it not full on like that?
Princess: I used to masturbate daily. This year I have a hand full of times. I once masturbated 4 times in a day. I have had a 4 way so yes 2 men and a women in the same night. Never 2 separate guys without them knowing
SinnerSaint: WOW, a four way, very nice. So you missed the opportunity to have them in your at same time?
Princess: Lesbian squirting or seduce the baby sitter. Im a little tired, Dom had all that and I’ve used it. For me it’s mental control and stimulation. Make me hold still on my own
SinnerSaint: So is your sex dive decreasing – and that’s why you don’t’ masturbate every day? would you ever get married? Who fathered your children?
Princess: The 4 way was the first time I met Dom, had a second the last time we had sex but the other guy wasn’t a good candidate for DP. Just realized first and last time we fucked was a 4 way.
SinnerSaint: Seduce the baby sitter – I like that theme. Okay, I’ll start wrapping it up so you can sleep. hang in there, we’ll be through soon.
Princess: It is. I had ovarian cancer and when I went into remission is when all of this (blog included) started. I’m basically going through menopause at 25. New medicine is helping. I’ll get married after 30, I have frozen eggs do will either use a surrogate or adopt one day regardless. I do want children. Not met the father yet.
SinnerSaint: wow, perhaps we can trade – I’ve thought about buying and egg and surrogate – I always wanted children but never married. You’re not yet 30? Well then, I need to go to Dublin and try to help your sex drive issue. – I’m very sorry about your hard times with the cancer – deeply sorry. sounds like you are surviving it which is awesome!!!
SinnerSaint: I’ll hold the last 1.69 million questions i have for another interview hopefully and let you get some rest. Do you have any questions or anything you wish for me not to include? I am mongo-grateful that you’ve taken your time to do this interview and no doubt readers will be too. You are on my “owe you one” list, and please let me know when there’s anything I can do for you
Princess: Interesting. And nope 25. How old are you? It’s gotten better, had sex 4 times last week and masturbated twice this week. It just requires dedication to the cause– which you can certainly help with;)
SinnerSaint: Holy fuck me on a mountain, you are twenty one? Wow, I’d tap that in heart beat. Now you really seem intelligent – figured you were 33 at least. WOW
Princess: Nope, I give you fill permission to use whatever you please including the photo I’m emailing you. Thank you for interviewing me! If anyone else has any questions we could do a round 2? Or I’ll o
Princess: Twenty five but close lol
SinnerSaint: Now I feel really fucking old. Hell no I’m not telling my age – I had an amazing youth – not that I’m aging any worse than anyone else – but I’ve got a beef with getting older.
SinnerSaint: What if just I have more questions, I don’t get a round two?
SinnerSaint: Photos your emailing me? if any are of your tits, there actually is a god.
SinnerSaint: imagine that everybody, 25 years old and has twice my vocab.
Princess: Haha you can have as many rounds as you please. Age is simply a number and I prefer my men north of 40.
Princess: And yes, my tits
SinnerSaint: we’re talking age, not inches. Awesome then, because I didn’t even get to my good questions
Princess: Good questions? Oh my give me 3 please
SinnerSaint: Thank you very much Princess. We’ll talk soon I hope, and the interview will be up in about 1/2 an hour. thank you
SinnerSaint: Is it okay if I refer people to your blog?
SinnerSaint: Sooo tempting, because I actually know the three i want to ask, but I’m going to keep them as a cliff hanger to get you to come for another and to inspire readers to come back and read.
Princess: Yes it is and you’re very welcome
Princess: I’m a little worked up.. thought the 3 may send me over edge